Dear blkhwkdwn1:

“hang around her neighbor doing picnics and dancing having a ball”- reads like an assumption that you are making, not based on evidence: what evidence do you have of her having a ball???

It does make sense that she would be spending time with a neighbor who lives right there, very close to her small yurt (it’s hard to stay in a very small yurt for too long, one has to get out), than it is for her to drive a distance away.

I don’t remember if you ever told her about you being upset at the idea that she spends time with other people but not with you, did you tell her that, and if so, what did she say in response?

anita