Dear Juanita;

You wrote earlier: “I need more help to find clarity regarding the assessment of people’s characters”-  your husband’s character is a bad character.

“how to set boundaries with the hurtful ones”- separate from your husband, separate all remaining finances from your husband. Divorce him so that he is no longer your husband.

I need to take a couple of hours break next, and I may have not responded fully to your last post, if I haven’t, let me know and I will reply further later.

anita