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June 9, 2020 at 7:18 am #358009
Jan
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Hi again Maya

You say

“I am a romantic person and when I fall in love, I love passionately and unconditionally.”

Also:

“I want to love and be loved passionately”

Don’t we all?! But that kind of intense feeling cannot be sustained throughout an entire marriage. Real love must develop from being ‘in love’ which can be more satisfying, long-term.

It may still be the case that the best solution is divorce but, be warned, even if you find someone to love you ‘passionately’ that passionate phase will not last. Guaranteed.

You say your husband is a good man in which case you may best be served by putting your energy into your 12 year marriage and giving up your girlish dreams of romance. You already have something many women would give their eye teeth for.

best of luck, whatever you decide to do

Jan

PS Unconditional love is for children and animals, not adults. 🙂

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 6 months ago by Jan.
  • This reply was modified 4 years, 6 months ago by Jan.