Dear lannawannabe:

“As for being infatuated, maybe not with him, but definitely still infatuated with my fantasy idea of him”- what if you remove your fantasy idea of him.. from him? I mean, really see him as he is, as the “Total jerk.. selfish and downright rude” man that he is?

I mean, if you know that what you are so infatuated by is a fantasy, then peel that fantasy off him.

“I consider myself a very sensual person.. and definitely interested.. “- while you compare yourself to other women who may dress better than you etc., you have something way more desirable for most men than a woman’s fashion style, and that is your sensuality. Thing is, you need to find a man worthy of you.

So.. peel the fantasy off him and look for a man who you can genuinely appreciate and respect.

anita