Hi anita,

My apologies if I came across as frustrated. I think I have posted much more here than I probably should have, allowing these questions to take up more mental space than they have done for some time. I find myself posting here when I am experiencing a very low moment and need a release. It’s a diary of sorts for me.

What I meant was, yes I see how it has been more an “in my own head” relationship than a real physical one. What I meant was , it makes me sad to think I have allowed it to become that. I have a tendency to ruminate (couldn’t you guess! hah) so this is, I suppose, not without some basis in just who I am. However, I would like to learn to move beyond that. I am working on it.

So, how do others cope? How can I forgive myself behaving very foolishly over this person and just let go?

LW