Hi Anita,

First of, I am sorry for not updating you sooner. I couldn’t come up with any questions to ask him and a huge part of me is I am still afraid to ask him.

Anyhow, I think I have a clearer answer now. I think the way he sees us is we are like best of friends. We still talk and text every single day. We can video calls for hours without any issues. We update each other’s whereabouts during the time when we are both up (cos we are in different time zones).

The reason why I think we are only best of friends is because he mentioned a few things during our conversations…like:

1. He still talks to his ex, but he said as a friend and there is nothing more. He also mentioned that they would never get back together but joked that if she wants to have a one-night stand, he would sleep with her. However, there would be no emotional attachment involved he says. I don’t know if he was testing to see how I would react or what.
2. We were talking about introducing girls to our friends and he said maybe he should date younger girls.
3. He was talking about all his exes and joking around how he slept with them. I wonder if this happens to any relationships. I mean do people open up and talk about exes like that?
4. He was joking about how if any girls who wants to have sex, he would give them. Sounds like a F**k boy?

We are both like an opened book. We talk about our family problems and stuff. There is no filter. We talk about anything and everything. He even remembers when I said I need to wake up early for a meeting. He would check in to see if I am up.

Regards,

Anna