Dear Anna:

“What I am to him?” is the question you asked in the title of your thread. And your recent answer (“I think I have a clearer answer now”): “I think we are only best friends”.

Reads like you have the correct answer, because of the reasons you listed. Make sure to not cross to the .. friends-with-benefits category, or best-friends-with-benefits category, as long distance best friends or if/  when you are in the same area.

“He was talking about all his exes and joking around how he slept with them.. He was joking about how if any girls who want to have sex, he would give them”- you definitely don’t want to hear these things after being romantically/ physically intimate with him, I imagine it will hurt you a lot.

I imagine he is saying these things to you because he doesn’t think you have any romantic interest in him (?)

.. Does it hurt you as a best friend, to hear these things?

anita