Dear Anna:

Yes, to see how he will react. You want  my suggestion as to how to tell him? If so, I would tell him: when you talk about your exes, and when you talk about having sex with other women, I feel hurt inside. Do you mind not saying those things to me?

Let’s say he then asks you something like: why does it hurt you?

Answer: I don’t know for sure (or I don’t want to talk  about it right now), but what I know for sure is that it hurts me, it feels painful for me to hear it.

-What do you think about my suggestion?

anita