Dear Gregory:

Christopher Agoth- I like his name. I like the photo you had of him, I still remember it well.

“I just want my son but not like his mother”- there is no reason why your son will be like his mother. His mother, that is, your estranged wife, was not born the way she is now. She became who she is because of her mother’s power over her. And I am not talking about her mother’s magic and witchcraft. I am talking about the power every mother has over her daughter, or over her son.

Look at the power your mother had over you: she told your brother to tell you to marry this woman (“tell my son Gregory, when he came back from his final exam in his boarding school that your mom said, you shouldn’t leave this girl.. That I should marry her to be my wife”)- and you married her. See how powerful mothers are over their sons and daughters.

So your son, the cute and lovable Christopher Agoth was not born like his mother, and as long as he doesn’t spend time with her, he will not become like her, and/or will  be harmed by her (and by her mother, both).

I suppose your mother made a mistake, on her death bed. I am guessing she was fooled by your now estranged wife talking to her on the phone: she didn’t know her well enough.

“My estranged wife with her mother are milking a dead cow!”- good to read this, and I like the imagery. I like you, Gregory, you are a good man, an “Amazing one!!!”

anita