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August 16, 2020 at 6:39 am #364885
AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
Christopher Agoth- I like his name. I like the photo you had of him, I still remember it well.
“I just want my son but not like his mother”- there is no reason why your son will be like his mother. His mother, that is, your estranged wife, was not born the way she is now. She became who she is because of her mother’s power over her. And I am not talking about her mother’s magic and witchcraft. I am talking about the power every mother has over her daughter, or over her son.
Look at the power your mother had over you: she told your brother to tell you to marry this woman (“tell my son Gregory, when he came back from his final exam in his boarding school that your mom said, you shouldn’t leave this girl.. That I should marry her to be my wife”)- and you married her. See how powerful mothers are over their sons and daughters.
So your son, the cute and lovable Christopher Agoth was not born like his mother, and as long as he doesn’t spend time with her, he will not become like her, and/or will be harmed by her (and by her mother, both).
I suppose your mother made a mistake, on her death bed. I am guessing she was fooled by your now estranged wife talking to her on the phone: she didn’t know her well enough.
“My estranged wife with her mother are milking a dead cow!”- good to read this, and I like the imagery. I like you, Gregory, you are a good man, an “Amazing one!!!”
anita
August 16, 2020 at 8:55 am #364890
ThonditParticipant😂 😂 Dear Anita,
Thank you so much with this wonderful and beautiful articulated article you had pour out here!
Sometimes, I couldn’t feel myself enough to just smile but always try to put a smile on my face. The trio dumbest with the politic of my mother in-laws with her daughter has formulate the whole family to the dumbest at all.
It was a wrong thought for my mother during her death bed time. The whole world has some many terror which mess up so many family into swimming dishes.
Anita, you hit the gym on the pivot intersect, it is true that mothers has powers over their daughters and son! But to some degree group influenced (peer pressure) is another factor to the young one.
It is tedious and unfortunately that my mother in-laws will soon end up in rope life due to wrong practice she has teaches her children.
Thanks appreciating Christopher Agoth, how genius you are to withstill remembered / recalled his photo.
By the way, how does the aircraft overcome the force of gravity during take-off ? I referred their forces to be forced of ineria, it’s just a force of tactics and I defeated the two animals ( I mean my estranged wife with her mother) that are fighting with their lives.
Posterior to that, I still respect Christopher Agoth’s mother who tried tirelessly during her pregnant time to take care of my baby. During her labour day her life was between life- death (50-50) but cautiously God help us to be a life and gave me my adorable handsome young man Christopher who is brown more than a father (me). His appearance and skin color is for her mother Ayong… I will still do something good for her because of my son! I appreciate her the little time we shared together thou she was not ready to be a wife.
Thanks Anita, you make me know myself and my strength.
God blessed you Anita.
Greg.
August 16, 2020 at 9:22 am #364891AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
I will be able to read your recent post and reply when I am back to the computer in about 6 hours from now.
anita
August 16, 2020 at 9:36 am #364892ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Alright. Just take your time first if you are preoccupied Now, you will respond me back after your free time.
Looking forward to see you happy and reply me.
Gregory.
August 16, 2020 at 2:51 pm #364902AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
You are welcome and thank you for being the good man that you are!
I agree with you that it is not only the mother who has power over her daughters and sons, it is also peer pressure (once the children are older, about teen age). Of course, there is also the father, when he is involved with the children.
I do appreciate Christopher Agoth- I feel affection for him. It is kind of you to appreciate his mother for giving birth to him, almost at the cost of her life. I wish she cared as much to take care of him after he was born, and to be a good wife to you.
I like you comparing you defying gravity when taking off, as a pilot, to defying the forces of your estranged wife and her mother and picking yourself up, instead of staying down. A wise comparison and .. an uplifting and encouraging imagery.
anita
August 16, 2020 at 8:23 pm #364919ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
It’s so pleasure to me to get all this educative and wise advices for FREE. Thanks for agreeing with me on such severe topic that confused people.
By the way I have news to tell you! It was a surprise to heard that my estranged wife whom had agreed with her mother to be given to a certain man who try to give the money to my mother in-law in order to give her daughter to that man just because of money.
They were all yearning for divorce letter from me to be given to them so that, this guy could go a head with his marriage.
He deceived my estranged wife that he is gonna marry her because of my son ati, that he want my estranged wife because of my son Christopher Agoth, haha 😂 I laughed when I heard this yesterday.
What goes around comes around ”
The man got annoyed with my estrange wife whom had agreed to be marry but the worst thing happened again, when the man was away, my estranged wife left the house of her own mother whom, knowing this lady his gonna sleep with the guy that her mother had agreed with him but unfortunately my estranged wife went and slept with different man.
As the man called her younger sister which is my sister in-law , the small girl say why do you ask me yet my elder sister normally go and slept with you. The guy got annoyed and call my estranged wife, where did you slept this days? You had been cheating on tans I want to marry you. He declared that now from today onwards never call me again and my estranged wife also abuse her bf whom her mother given her!!!
She was confused immediately and try to call her friend who knows me, and perhaps she explained everything, the girl (her friend) said why do u call me to tell me your nonsense and this is what have you been doing to Christopher Agoth’s Father Mr. Gregory, was the right man for you. Do you think the same man will be happy seeing you sleeping with other men and u can’t be asked?
Carry Your Own cross..
Haha 😂 my mother in-law with her daughter, their friendship is being flooding with water!
God is on my side for seeing what was done to me intentionally.
I love you God, you are my motivator , my Sanitizer, I love you so much Lord for judging this case. I was taken as a victim but their which was done in the darkness is now in the light,,,,, thank you my father-in-law for standing with me until you die.
Your dead wife you left with her daughter has finally disagree with their daughter. What you used to tell me has happened now.
All the best in your grave my father-in-law.
Thanks.
Gregory.
August 17, 2020 at 5:51 am #364926AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
You are welcome. It is very sad that the mother of your estranged wife is practically selling her daughter to yet another man (“to be given to a certain man who try to give the money to my mother-in-law”). Maybe it is time to no longer call her mother-in-law or mother of any kind, and call her instead M1, standing for Money. And instead of calling her daughter estranged wife, or wife of any kind, let’s call her M2, standing for Money as well.
So, this man deceived M2.. I didn’t understand this: “that he is gonna marry her because of my son.. that he wants (M2) because of my son”- but your son is not living with her and she has no contact with the boy.. can you explain this to me?
You wrote that when that man was away, M2 slept with another man and the first man found out and does not want any contact with her. Why do you think did M2 sleep with the other man?
anita
August 18, 2020 at 8:26 am #365040ThonditParticipantDear Anita
So, this man deceived M2.. I didn’t understand this: I was meaning that M2, cheated the man which M1, gave him to be her wife but unfortunately M2 decided to have another side dish besides her. When the guy discovered that M2, had another one as a reserved they both end up abusing each other. The guy told her, I think that is reason u left your first man who had a baby with. You were the cause of the case and you were telling me from very beginning, that the father of my son is treating me yet you were. He declared that you shouldn’t call me again and M2 said the same statement too that don’t call me too. When I got the news from her friend (I mean M2)whom the normally walk together I laughed until morning and say wonders will never end”
“that he is gonna marry her because of my son.. that he wants (M2) because of my son”- but your son is not living with her and she has no contact with the boy.. can you explain this to me?” when M2, met the guy for the first time, she didn’t disclose anything to him, she told him everything after M1 talk to the guy promising that I will give you my M2,, . Then they began to sleep out with M2, because her M1, is now involved for the dealt. When the guy was away for some days M2,,,, end up with another one sleeping with him. Suddenly the guy went to the house of M1, asking for M2, to go and sleep out,,,,, he was told we were expecting u with her for the last 3 days we thought you are with M2.
He got pissed off and call M2, and start abusing her.
You wrote that when that man was away, M2 slept with another man and the first man found out and does not want any contact with her. Why do you think did M2 sleep with the other man?”
I think M2, wanted money and that is all. But I don’t know her plans concurrently. I thought they were satisfied. Let see their episode of the film how it will last in the future.
Greg.
August 18, 2020 at 8:54 am #365041ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
I’m also to take Christopher Agoth, to cattle camp in December, because I remembered my instructor which is Capt Peter Maranga, who is normally flying dreamliner Boeing 787, 777 Airbus 320, with his son Emmanuel, saying if you want your son to know things let him be in the cattle camp in order learn so many things because looking after the cattle grazing that is were the knowledge start.
I was also taken to the cattle camp when I was young, and I was taught how to milk the cows and take them for grazing which I go to the deep forest where so many lions and hyena were.
I have learnt hard things in life that is why I managed difficult things in my education struggle.
I have gone to thro so many places where my dad had never been there since he was born. I imagined I have flow through different countries passing so many oceans across the continent with the machine called aircraft, going to 40000ft AMSL, later on I will used my navigation chart to Identify the location or the city where Anita, is living in.
It’s so amazing thou. I’m yearning to look-up with my Christopher,
Chris Agoth, is also happy to be a pilot, which he always tell me dad, I want to be a pilot.
Thanks
August 18, 2020 at 9:43 am #365045AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
Thank you for your clear explanation for me in your first post. I imagine you are good at explaining things to Chris Agoth. A cattle camp reads like an excellent place for you to have quality father-son time with him.
I understand what you explained about M1 and M2- sex and money is what the story is about, isn’t it. You wrote earlier that this exchange is not always about women not having enough money for necessities, but women wanting money for extras, or to start a business and make more money than necessities. For a woman to sell her body for any reason, that’s a very sad thing. To sell her body for extras, that’s.. with the encouragement and support of her mother.. that’s corrupt, isn’t it…
anita
August 18, 2020 at 11:19 pm #365103ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Yes you definitely correct, it’s true that M1 and M2, are both yearning for money as well. Their major priority is to get money to be known that they have money in their house. In fact they have a dirty background, a small groups of people which God has given them a very well balanced body with the all qualities of beauty among the figures. They all got figures 8 in a class of figure 9.
Thanks.
August 19, 2020 at 7:42 am #365113AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
Even “figures 8 in a class of figure 9” can get infected with the HIV virus that I read is going on in Juba, because of the prostitution going on. I am guessing M2 is risking her life every time she has sex with a new man.
anita
August 20, 2020 at 9:23 am #365184ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Aha you are have correctly said the right point but the thing is, M2, doesn’t fear of HIV virus, she said its something normal that can take you for long time. She said as long as she get the money, she can get the medicine in the process of being she has not die.
I once told her this game of yours you are doing to everyone, you will soon get infected with AIDS and do you know what she told me, yes I’m looking for it. She adopted this from her auntie and grandma.
I pity her also. All the best to her decision.
Life is a choice.
August 20, 2020 at 2:21 pm #365212AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
M2’s mother and aunt, both support her prostituting herself, AIDS or not. Evil exists, Gregory. Her mother’s, her aunt’s and her own. It is very sad and very scary. It is not only in Juba that evil exists. It is in every country, and it exists in the white house as well: this indifference to human life, indifference to human dignity.
anita
August 22, 2020 at 3:07 am #365330ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
You absolutely right but the rate of prostitution and evil acts is at rampt higher level at the moment.
Young one need to be rich at the shortest time as possible so this mean that you find everyone is going for Juju.
For the prostitution of M2, her intentions of doing it is beyond humanity.
Its just a little nervous moment and she is almost to be known by the whole country of her prostitution. I pity her with her M1.
Greg.
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