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  • #412904
    Thondit
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    Dear Natie

    I appreciated Anita for the consistency of advices she have really given you for free. Mistakes are in every corner and when it come and go it open up your eyes and give you a wise decision in the next mistake.

    A mistake that makes you humble is better than an achievement that make arrogant.
    I hope have studied the content of your relationship that went South…. of we were in the same boat.  I was in such relationship before but Anita tried so hardly to stand with me.  You have known the roots cause already.

    When you  know the content very well, you  have the key to open the door of all the listeners and learners who have open minds. This is the “logo”. Logos is the way into the hearts of someone with an open mind. Logos is about credibility. However, Logos is not just facts, it is about presenting them logically.  It is about stating facts, then connecting how they are related to other facts and then making a conclusion. Again

    “Everybody you attracted to you ain’t compatible with. Because it look good to you don’t mean it’s going to be good to you”

    How would you fight fair in your next  marriage? Of course you have learned already.
    Let  learn each other’s buttons and let  know when to back off and cool off in another room.

    We don’t let our  voices go about volume 5 in any argument.
    we don’t  need to call each other names, we don’t need to  talk about each other’s families during our  arguments.

    We don’t bring up what has been resolved in a past argument.

    We shouldn’t let the last words ourselves hear to  something regrettable and hurtful (before we  leave the house or got to bed)
    Words are hard to take back and the silent treatment isn’t good.

    Qn.2 Biggest mistake before marriage?

    Know how to find common ground. Not offering a full disclosure.
    Before marriage, put everything on the table.
    No secrets I have hide from you.
    Let them know you are credit report!
    Remember when you are dating someone…you’re dating their representative (the perfect, well-behaved version of them).
    “Everyone you are attracted to you ain’t always someone you’re compatible with.”
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    Regards.

    Gregory.

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    #408261
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Good evening and sleep well dear.

    I’m so glad and excited with the way you definitely like my answers and I would like to request from you to answer me Q-2 .

    And however,  Did you present her with questions too, the same questions perhaps… and who is currently taking care of your two children ?

    Yes I did and she promised to take care of them without mistreating.

    Regards.

    Gregory.

    #408208
    Thondit
    Participant

    <p style=”text-align: left;”>Dear Anita,  it is 3am here and I will be away from the computer for about 8 hours from.</p>
    I will respond to you when I return to the computer.

    Sincerely

    Greg

    #408203
    Thondit
    Participant

    A continuation of reading

    It is fine with me, this will wake me up if if there’s anything I could make of forgetting in our relationship we are in.

    Do you know y everyone likes me and they want to stay with me?

    I’m always honest and always tell things how I sees them.

    Now there are few people who tells truths and no matter the consequences.

    I don’t color my words to make a person happy when it is not truth.

    *I sometimes quarrels with people telling others lies, as a human being bite a bullet and tell the truth because truths hurt but I highly respect* myself for just doing that.

    *Many families are breaking up today because of lies and cheating*.  Lies are *very sweet to hear but much more dangerous than truths which are bitter but healing!*

    For that one reason among many  I always cling to you not only as a wife to me but a bestfriend to me also a brother to me too.

    I choose to always protect you from both men and girls who are out to play with your time and wasted your focus.

    If I was a girl like you,  I would not be simply jealous,  I would fight you to own Gregory as mind alone bcoz I really don’t like telling lies to make a girl happy.

    But because I’m not a girl like you , that’s when you won’t know who Gregory is! When it comes to dating database.

    #408199
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita

    How have you been today?

    As you requested how I responded her questions. Go through blow.

    Thank you for your kindness questions that you ask and allow me to quote them here

    Do our values align?
    Yes they do aligned with similarities below;
    1. You are Caring and soft-hearted. U are really soft hearted, I mean, u care for people I don’t even know, and u care about other people’s needs over your own, sometimes to the extreme though…..u have been under my observation.

    2. You are intelligent and I’m. U don’t sound arrogant to others but u really smart, like, u only.

    3. You have a sense of humor and I do. I know that sounds cliche, but senses of humor are severely lacking in our world, especially self humor, my sister says it’s good to make fun of yourself sometimes, it gives you perspective.

    4. Considerate. Again, not trying to sound arrogant, but u have a tendency to put others ahead of mean, for no reason.

    5. You are a good listener, I mean, even though u ’ve been going through ur own struggle with dilemma, u ’ll happily stop to listen to your troubles and see the need of someone who need your consent.

    U ‘ve a hrt of humanity through trying to give a love to someone that really want u in his life. U support others, u are an extremely loyal person.

    “Does our parenting rhyme or will it be full of conflicts?”

    Our parenting doesn’t rhyme but practically I have learned how to lived with different perpetrated people on earth. I believed I will continue to love you, even if it happen to divorce me and come back for me, you will always have a room or chance to come back to me and still love you till the day I kiss the cup of death.

    You say again will it be full of conflicts?

    My answer is No.

    I’m not a fan of conflicts.

    Do you hold on to negative family/marital/parenting stereotypes?

    Apparently at my age mommy, I’m not an importer of words and I don’t run away from family affairs. If there’s any problem between the family I take a initiative to solve it.

    Are you all talk but no action when it comes to the real deal in future?

    I optimistic to put myself into practice and demonstrate my promises and words into action.

    Can I rely on you to not change but instead uphold currently shared values? As my wife you are absolutely have right to rely on me.

    So long I have chosen you as my wife , perhaps there’s no any obligation of not relying on me as your husband.

    Should I buy into the notion that all SSDnese men are not reliable and I should just settle for an average home and family as he breaks every rule while I am supposed to stay faithful?

    Not all men are in the same oceans neither the girls too. Me personally I’m self-reliance. I’m more serious with our relationship and I’m done that I don’t need anything again further. I’m settle

    Are there negative aspects of his character that are currently hidden or that I have simply not identified well?

    In case I hide myself then you can still trace it out later and time will tell out.

    Things like these

     

    Do you know why everyone like me most?

    I’m not superman mommy but I tried to be unique person.

    *I’m just a normal guy but what makes me special……. is trustworthy,  you can trust me with not only your future but your life too mommy*!!! I’m hard working, self-reliance and confident in my abilities to succeed.

    #393157
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Amen, thanks so much dear. I will make sure I i do a possible cared as I could.

    Appreciated.

    G.

    #393115
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    I’m happy and healthy thanks.

    My two sons are doing great. I appreciated you dear. Where are our friends Jay Jay and Peggy as well as Teak nowadays?

    Say hey to them.

    #393114
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    I’m happy and healthy thanks.

    My two sons are doing great. I appreciated you dear. Where is our from Jay Jay and Peggy as well as Teak nowadays?

    Say hey to them.

    #393113
    Thondit
    Participant

    Hello Anita,

    How have you been doing?

    I was caught up by the serious sickness that took almost two weeks in my body , so now I’m back to healthy state.

    Thanks.

    Greg. Thondit’s dad. A proud father.

    #391974
    Thondit
    Participant

    Hello Dear,

    As its usual flying first.

    Dear Anita,
    Thank you so much. You are indeed very good, very good to the earth.  I will keep each and everyone in my life.  I will fly with them. Though Sky is the only home of pilots where you met with so many birds , heavy clouds.

    The sky gets wide and deep. I’m in the cockpit with my crews. And my friends are far below me, taking pictures of the ocean.

    Finally,  I climb over to certain level of 40000ft where the machine is level and balanced at the cruising speed boulder and the view opens up.

    I can see here to the infinite horizon.  I feels  as though I’m staring at the edge of the earth,  where water meets the sky, blue on blue.  The wind screams across my skin. I look up. It’s bright.  It’s beautiful like Anita physical appearance,  its beautiful like Anita, encouragingly!!

    While my eyes are keening set on the aircraft system, still my 90% as Captain Maranga,  said looked outside to see where the aircraft is head and, what the computer is telling me to do, pressing every single button in an interval.

    I sit there for a moment of hours acrobatics oceans,  wrestling with so much turbulence and cliff and leaning my my both feet on the panel of the break, and keep my hand on the throttle with combined rudder to turns gradually.

    Confronting the reality of our own mortality is important bcuz it obliterates all the crampy,  fragile,  superficial values in life.

    Thank you to my brilliant and beautiful friend Anita,  who never hesitates to say no to me when I take any decisions,  and when I need to hear it most.

    Not only do you make me a better person,  but your unconditional love and constant feedback to everyone in tinybuddha during writing any thread in the forum.

    In many ways, I don’t feel as though I fully became an adult until I understood many of the concepts in this flying.  In that sense, it’s been a joy to get know you in this forum as per these past few years.

    Two big brains that conspire to make my brain appear much larger than it actually is. Your hard work and brilliance continue to floor me.
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    #391944
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    How are you doing today?

    Sorry I had a long flight today. I did get time to respond you back.  Men work harder to bring the food on the table.  The same hard work my estranged wife left me in, never inclined at all.  We will see who will be who in the future.

    Though sometimes, Isn’t it funny how the people that hurt you the most, tend to react a different way when the table gets turned?. There’s a popular saying that goes “If you can’t eat it, then don’t serve it”. Don’t hurt someone and expect them to worship the ground you walk on because the world certainly doesn’t revolve around you. Just imagine sometimes I don’t like or a fun of revenge in my life. I got that sympathy to treated once that hurt me. I leave everything to God himself to judge it.<!–/data/user/0/com.samsung.android.app.notes/files/clipdata/clipdata_bodytext_220128_215906_834.sdocx–>

    Gregory.

    #391915
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for your wise response I thought and worries that my jokes might hurt you but I had appreciated you, I wish you all the best in your continuous studies, I will tell you nothing but the truth an educated woman is equivalent to ten men because you play so much duties at home but still manage to succeed in education side magnificent .

    God bless you Anita.

    Gregory.

    #391914
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita.

    Thanks for the soft reply.  I wish you happy all the times.

    I never regret being put at the hard side but its always gave me a strength.

    I’m requesting you to climb to fly level 080ft higher but unfortunately you are descending to fly level 100ft I see and hear request report to 5miles Emami 🙉😆😆🤔

    With this be blessed.

    Greg.

    #391903
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thank you for being at the shore of ideas when I need you, then you are there to offered.  Either if once is glancing for your contribution you are there too,,,,, to give whatever,  he request for!!!

    Yes, soon my son Thondit (Agoth) is gonna fly with me as Maranga did to his son Emmanuel.

    Maranga,  introduced me into so many things in life. He put me into flying school and he took to me further born again  church,  where I was appointed as leader in the choirs for 3 years.

    I remembered the time we flow together with his son Emmanuel and a father,  as well as family friend (me) from Nairobi to Kigali back to Nairobi.  You can check it on his fb peter maranga.  Where he was interviewed while I was on the jam sit. Maranga is a kindred hearted man like Anita,  who help a lots of people with so many traumas , you devoted your advised free of charge.

    Soon or nor later my son will be in the cockpit with me. As you have seen already.

    He knows the word go around when we are landing and we happen to spot another aircraft in our TCAS.

    In the moment of silence God be with you. And hence CAN U PROVIDE ME your EMAIL ADDRESS.

    #391893
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for your input.  Every step you shared with me give me courage and learn more.  Yes, if there’s any possibility where I could help to transform the young couples I’m ready to offered my ideas. As well as my wife will definitely play her role to give best to their opposite sex.  I have learnt a lots from so many elders how take cares of your wife and it is a collective ideas from well mannered parents.

    I love the well mannered and educated Captains of Aviation pilots.

    The success of a child is the blessing from both parents. Most of they children don’t acknowledged this ideas. My mom used to prayed for us and she stated I feels Gregory,  will one day fly people with his aircraft and Now I do!!

    Its important to every child to have a blessing from both parents.. one day When people ask Capt Maranga, what he does for a living, he replies “I fly airplanes and write about them. He has so many books he wrote like “License to Fly”. And I’m one of the most fortunate people in the world to have been able to make a career of doing what I love.” Capt Peter maranga,  has been a pilot for more than  45 years, an aviation writer for more than 40 and has been lucky enough to get to fly just about every type of personal and business airplane in production from the 1950s onward. He was on the Flying Magazine staff for 25 years and editor-in-chief for 20 of those years. He holds several business jet type ratings  and he has been flying B787,  B747,  B763, B777, direct to New York, and  has logged more than 60,000 hours. they instructor retired last year from flying and he has remained as an aviation industry chief- pilots. Captain Maranga,  was the God fearing pilot, he has flow with his son Emmanuel Several occasions.  He was the first person who introduced me in flying school. He trained me. He advised me,  handle this little bird called airplane like handling a married woman,  when u don’t treated her well she becomes very stubborn. An aircraft is as the same as a woman. When u don’t give attention, he tell you wonders.

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    I love and give respect to any ladies in the world.

    God bless you Anita.

    Greg

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