Dear Tania:

You shared that your husband follows pretty actresses  on social media and sometime likes their photos.

– as a married man, he shouldn’t follow pretty actresses on social media and like their photos. As a married man, he will still look at pretty women, but he shouldn’t proceed in that direction and search for and indulge in images of pretty women (other than the pretty image of his wife).

His misbehavior activates the hurt and jealousy you felt as a little girl, when your father complimented your friend: “my father give compliment to my friend. And I become really jealous.. I feel my father like her more than me”-

– fast forward you feel that your husband likes the pretty actresses more than he  likes you, and you feel hurt and jealous

You wrote regarding your husband: “I wanna ask him.. ‘what’s wrong with me? Why do you do this? We’ve been married and you have a wife. Why you still look at another girl'”?-

– ask him for his attention. Sit across him and while he is looking at you, ready to listen to what you say, ask him these questions. Let me know what he says, will you?

anita