Since you feel you must give this man another chance, how about limiting it to ONE more chance. Give him one month. This giving constant chances for him to change is about you not valuing yourself enough to say I deserve better. You always allowing someone to be abusive in their words and actions towards you is a sign you have work to do to find your own self worth. I wish this were easier or I had a nicer way to say this. Because you allow him to treat you poorly. We teach people how to treat us. Have the courage to see that he devalues you by saying mean things to you. If you text him too much and he wants you to stop, then stop. But if you aren’t bombarding him with text messages, and he is simply mean and angry, then know what is real. If he is simply irritated all the time, this is not a good thing. If he blames you all the time for his ugly behaviors, know this is a really bad sign of what will come if you marry him. I believe his temperament will only solidify more as he gets older. A mean person who says things to make others feel bad is not a good person to marry. Your love can’t or won’t make him turn into a nice guy, someone who treats you well.