Dear Amelia:

You are welcome. I understand your decision to end a relationship that was not going to progress to marriage, which is what you are interested in. I also understand that you are angry at him, at this family, and at yourself for wasting your time and energy on him. But like Jenny suggested to you, your time and energy were not all wasted if you learn from the experience. One thing you learned and mentioned in your most recent post is: “word still remains word until you put an action in it”.

Post again anytime you want to express your thoughts and feelings, and anytime you want suggestions perhaps, on how to move forward and into a relationship that will proceed into marriage.

anita