No I haven’t told him that I am afraid his bad thoughts are about harming me.

The reason i haven’t said that to him is because the information I have read about intrusive thoughts are that they are not what a person wants to do in fact they are the very opposite of what the person wants to do which is why they cause them so much distress.

I have never felt like he would hurt me, he’s never so much as raised his voice to me.

I guess it’s the unknown that’s making my mind fire up and try to work out what the thoughts are and what they mean when in reality the information I have read tells me they don’t mean anything!