Dear sasseyholmes:

You are welcome. I am glad to read that you kept peace in the home for the sake of your children, and that you’ve been seeing a therapist that has been helping you a lot. From what I understand about your situation, it is a good idea that your now estranged husband is going to be living elsewhere, although I do understand your financial concern regarding him being locked into a one-year lease, and making financial (and otherwise) irrational decisions.

Because he is making risky financial decisions without your knowledge, and because his decisions affect you greatly, being married to him- I think that you should see a family law attorney, or a divorce attorney so to legally protect yourself from his irrational decisions in the next few days.

anita