Dear stephen

Thank you very much for you reply,

From what you said that she’s waiting for me to stop liking her now

= yes that’s true she doesnt want me to wait for her because she wants to focus on her studies and her future job… she said to me that i would be a waste of time for me to wait for her, and it’ll be a burden to her

She then said that she feels so hurt saying this, and she actually wants to be with me but she’s unsure of her future. And she cant do a long distance relationship, that’s why she ask me to be her friend only and dont frequently contact her again. So that both of us wont get hurt if we keep contacting each other but ended into a broke up in the future.

Yes i know 21 and 17 is not the right age for us, that’s why i’ve told her that i would wait… till she’s 20 and im ready for her, but we need to keep contacting each other… but she said dont wait.
Then when i asked, what if in the future i come for you again, she said she cant answer it as she cant predict the future

And i asked her if your feelings for me right now are real, do u have it easy letting me go like this? She said she wont answer it.

Then i asked, should i chase another girl now? She said she wont answer it.

Then she wishes me to take care of myself, and we should stay friends but not as close as usual. Like only a normal friend.

So after this explanation, do u still have the same opinion? (From your above opinion)

And why are you sure with this words that u said “you will look back on this in the future and realize you were upset about nothing, i promise”

My plan right now is to find another girl for me(while still hoping for her also, only hoping but not texting her often) if it goes well and i find a good one in the next 5 years.. i’m sure i’ll forget about her. But if i cant find one, i’ll try contacting her again (if she’s still single).