Dear James15:

You shared that you and her were fwb (friends with benefits) for months before you dated long distance for 8 months. She broke up with you suggesting that you might resume your relationship in the future when  you are no longer long-distance. While broken up, you continued to talk everyday, resuming a fwb relationship. A few days ago she told you that Bob, a long distance friend, told her that he liked her. You are upset about her breaking up with you supposedly because you were long-distance, only to start another long distance relationship. You are also “concerned for her safety around this guy” because behaved in certain ways  with other girls, for example, pretending to have overdosed so to get their attention, and caused those girls to be “crying, upset, depressed”.

I am not sure, therefore I am asking: is it true that you never met her in real life, that she never met Bob in real life, you never met Bob, or the girls that he upset, in real life, and the sex with her (“the sexual part of our relationship was absolutely amazing”) did not happen in real life?

anita