Dear Amrita:

Thank you for inviting me to let you know when I need clarification of what you meant to say. I offer you the same: if you are not clear about anything I write to you, let me know.

So, this relationship is long distance and infrequent, a call once a week or once in 15 days or even a month. You never initiate the calls. You meet every six months for half a day or a day.

You clarified that you understand that this relationship will not last long, that he will never leave his family so to be with you. And you shared that “he would always say that I trust and love you a lot, don’t break my trust in you”. By trust, he means that he trusts you to not tell his family about the relationship?

I wonder.. what is it about him/ the way he treats you that you like so much?

anita