Anita,

1. I don’t think she failed as a wife. I honestly never thought about it though. I wanted to be better for her.

2. She told me that if I could do the things that she was needing from me then our marriage would in turn change and make her more loving toward me and make her happier. She got tired of putting in effort and not receiving anything back.

3. She is far superior in terms of communicating. Although I did feel at times my points weren’t seen or heard when I did say something but I attributed that to bad timing on communicating my feelings because I would usually try to do it when when she was opening up to me.

4. The depression came from a lack of friends in my life outside of immediate family. I still don’t have many friends but I have one who I usually do something with every couple of weeks.

5. She said that she’s tired of feeling like she did something wrong and the feeling of being alone. That I had no reason to give attitude when things were out of her control.

-rob