Hi Anita,

I agree with you. But I am not going to say directly to him this might create work related issues for me. I could just indirectly say things like i was busy talking to my boyfriend. What i did just now i posted a picture and saying wonderful things about my bf. So basically, he should understand to back off. Because you know there is a thing i can’t be vanishing my whole relationship for some baseless “crush ” or whatsoever i could be talking to him but not anything like dating or something else. I don’t even know if i have a crush i feel but i think its there mostly because he keeps staring at me all the time and i feel intimidated. As there are lots of plenty of handsome and younger guys i never felt that way before. Because they never behave that way. Yes we are friends but nothing of this sort you know. It could be also that he does that with everyone or its his way of behaving. But one thing is clear for me from my end i am not going to tarnish my five year old relationship due to senior.

That’s right i guess.

Sarah.