Dear Notebookb6:

You asked: “how can I confront him regarding his recent change without appearing needy?”- send him a short and casual message saying that you miss your midnight talks and his lucid dreams, and ask him if he didn’t dream lately.

“I’m also thinking if I should let him know my feelings towards him, but afraid that this would scare him off. What should I do?”- in what I suggested above, you would be telling  him that you miss the midnight talks you had- that’s telling him a bit about your feelings. It’s a beginning.

anita