Dear anita,

I think that is a scary question to ask, because I might get asked the same question and my answer is not common. I do not really want to get married… i think i might want to get to know someone and the big step for me would be live with that person, if after a long time we are still together and getting married is something important for my partner I would do it, but just so he feels good about that. And about kids I do not want to have kids… in this moment in life i do not feel like i have quality  time, money and the emotional maturity that requires to have a child. And when i think in the future, i might have some money i would feel comfortable with, but to get quality time i would need to find a different kind of job, which i would feel like a kind of castration, that I am not sure i could take, the emotional maturity is even more complex,  I am really tying to be a better version of me, but I do not know if one day I would feel ready to have a child.

I am not really sure someone is ready to hear this kind of answer…

Kay