Dear Kay:

I understand that you are not interested in marriage or in having children (I respect your responsible attitude regarding having children!). But I also understand that you are interested in a committed bf-gf relationship, where your boyfriend does not sleep with other women.

The questions I suggested that you ask him are not meant to lead him to consider marriage with you, but to get to understand more how he views you, and what he feels about you, what place you have in his mind and heart.

anita