Dear Anita,

I am sort of concerned if i be rude to him, he could create issues at work for me. Don’t you think? I could just put a point with him that its better to communicate at work, i don’t think its a good idea to talk late nights especially when i have so much do (studies and work balance). Because i told him already there would be nothing beyond this. He said that he didn’t want to create problems for me.  I think its better to slow down rather than just put him off completely.

Sarah.