Dear Cat:

It is exactly five months since you first posted about this man/ this relationship. I understand that on one hand, you don’t have a healthy relationship history, but on the other hand, this man told you something that he cannot un-tell you. I mean, it would be very difficult for almost any woman to let go of the images of him doing what he did. I think it’s best that you let him go, break up with him and move on.

Away from him, with a more suitable man, work on your relationship issues.

anita

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