Dear Suomilaninen:

I will be back to your thread tomorrow morning, in about 10 hours from now and reply further. For now, I understand that you got emotionally attached to him, especially at a time that you needed support so to separate from your husband, and I understand that it will be difficult for you.. but reads to me that best for you is to get emotionally ready to no longer be in contact with this man. Reads to me, as you already suspect, that this man is not honest with you.

anita