@Danny I’ve instructed an agent to sell up! It was never going to be my forever home and I want a fresh start with someone in a new place with no lingering memories of the ex.
The ex I too have developed an indifference roo. I think the type of person I am, I’ll always care about him but no longer want him. I’m really proud of where I fought to get to.
So I don’t know if you’ve read this thread, but I have a friend my bestie in fact. She was my alcohol buddy and support when shit hit the fan. I’ve known her for yonks!
Her brother has been there for me too and recently a bit of flirting has happened, i thought i was imagining it so asked my bestie and according to her he’s always fancied me! The timing has never been right. So nothing has happened. I don’t want to rush it, I’m scared also because she’s my best friend what if it gets messy? I don’t want him to be a rebound so I don’t know whether I should get something out my system first. I’m confused Danny! Lol
Don’t worry you and B will be back together soon. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. The distance can be fun too with tech 😉 do you still have the same chemistry when you’re apart?
Oh em G, look at you, you’re actually planning your future together. I think getting a nicer home over an expensive wedding is better. If her side want a big wedding don’t feel pressured to match it. I’m sure B just wants you and would be happy with a small intimate affair. You could do both, a cultural wedding paid for by her father and a intimate affair paid for by you. Don’t let yourself fa into the weddingzilla trap. It’s meant to be a ceremony to celebrate your love.
I’m so pleased for you Danny!
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