Dear Satya,

Your boyfriend wants everything his own way.  He is married to another woman and the only way he can ‘fix’ that is to get divorced.  You are already thinking that your future will be full of pain ‘all the time’.  It doesn’t matter how his wife feels about things.  YOU have to take care of YOU.  You don’t need this man to find you a husband.   YOU can go back to your parents and tell them it didn’t work out or YOU can begin building your own life with someone more worthy of you.  You deserve so much better than half baked promises that won’t amount to anything.  Come on, girl.  There’s a whole wide world out there.

Peggy