Dear Neverdyed:

I’ve communicated with many hundreds of members in these forums, people from every continent in the world, except for Antarctica. Some with very poor English, but never did I experience such a frustration as when trying to understand you. Here and there, in isolation, you are clear, but when trying to connect the points, to See the Story- I find myself suspended in Confusion Land.

One  example- you wrote about this man: “I hope that he’d value my worth and suggest a try, however that would be hard work for sure, and the result may still be unpleasant”- I understood the part I italicized, but what does the rest mean: what would be hard work? For  whom will it be hard work?  What results are you referring to?

I don’t know.

You wrote about your mother that she “was always the one who forced others to talk during a fight”- it is as if you decided early on that if you are forced to talk, then you will confuse the hell out of the listener/ reader, a passive-aggressive response to being forced to talk.

In your most recent post, you wrote: “I admit that I’m rather passive aggressive”. I have experienced your passive-aggressive communication style: give the reader/ listener a bit of clarity and then drown them in confusion.

I will no longer reply to you- a great relief for me!

anita