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Dear Peace:
“how could a person be 24/7 available and sweet and tell me he loves me, misses me all the time.. Doesn’t it mean he loves me??”-
– being available 24/7 to you means that he is not busy otherwise: that he is not studying or working much, so he has a lot of available time.
– Telling you that he loves you and misses you doesn’t take much time or effort to do. Try it yourself: say out loud the words I-love-you, I-miss-you. How much time and effort did it take you, and did it cost you any money to say these words?
Here is what I suggest: tell him that you will not be sending him any more money (and make sure that you do not!) then see if he bothers to be there 24/7 for you and tell you sweet things.
(I will be away from the computer for a couple of hours).
anita