Dear llyana:

You are welcome, great to read another positive update. Thank you for once again making my day!

You had a wonderful, powerful experience in therapy, don’t forget how  good it felt: maybe you can draw or put together some art work, such as a child would make, and attach it to the refrigerator (or elsewhere), to remind yourself every day of the experience you had today, in therapy (?)

I have a comment on something you wrote yesterday regarding your marriage: “it is possible that no amount of therapy and talking will make my husband capable of giving me the love and support that I crave“-

– I don’t know anything about how your husband behaves specifically, what I do know, from personal experience and from my experience communicating with members here over the years, is that when a child grows up without love, the craving for the love that is not there, is so intense, so raw and painful, that as an adult- the person is not satisfied with any other person as being loving- enough, not loving enough to satisfy such deep, intense, early-life craving.

anita