Hi Anita,

Thanks for getting back to me! Yes nothing has changed in the relationship that I can Put my finger on but I have felt recently that he’s lost interest as well, although our full relationship has been in lockdown pretty much so we have been with each other 24/7 but not able to actually do anything. I also don’t know if what I think is loss of interest is actually just my brain telling me things are wrong? I’m struggling to distinguish between what’s really happening and what I think is happening, which is crazy.

My parents relationship is rubbish! They’re not married but still together. My mum is quite abusive towards my dad and brings him down to nothing at any chance she gets. She done the same with my sister and I growing up, she’s also financially dependent on my dad as she doesn’t work even though she has no reason not to and she does nothing to help around the house, she’s basically like another child! I don’t live with them anymore and don’t get on with my mum! I wish my dad would leave her