Dear anonymous03:

You are welcome to safely unload here any time, I just read your reply on another thread and was very impressed by how thorough, detailed and empathetic your reply is. The advice you gave the member is excellent!

As far as what it is that you are “very ashamed” about, if you do choose to share it- you can keep some of the details you feel most ashamed about to yourself, and choose (or not) to share them later.

Wishing you and me and everyone who is reading this to be safe.

anita