Danny bro you told me off for apologising in this thread before when you are in a situation where your emotions are out of sync so please don’t, especially after I’ve been at the centre of this thread for the past 2 months with my own problems.

I would strongly advise against approaching her until a certain and fair amount of time has passed as it could do further damage, it could one of those situations where in a couple of days you will feel silly for over thinking everything. The incident may have been a trigger to her thinking about things in more detail, marriage is a massive commitment and she may just need the time to reassure herself in her own mind, it may even been a blessing in disguise to further cement her own comittment but I would try not think of worse case scenarios as when you do speak to her it may get blown up into something bigger than necessary, you know the relationship and bond you have with her so trust that and try to not to worry mate.