Dear Nae:

You fell deeply in love with a man, and then he lied to you and betrayed you.   You broke up with him, but you still miss him, and feel love for him.  You asked how to deal with being betrayed and lied to in a relationship-

– You broke up with him but you also “wanna call him everyday… don’t know what to do”, meaning that you are considering getting back together with him in some form or another. This means that his lies and betrayal were not yet a deal breaker for you, not as far as your heart is concerned.

You told your family and friends about his lies betrayal, and as a result, “they all literally hate him”, and you have no one to talk to about it all. You are welcome to talk about what happened right here, and I will read and reply.

anita