* Dear TeaK: (double posting, above). I think that I understand your concern, you are concerned that parts of my replies to Ik09 have caused her harm. I greatly appreciate your motivation (and I greatly appreciate your participation in the forums). I will pay more attention to the great principle  of do-no-harm in the future, and I thank you for directing my attention back to this principle.

Because I am in the habit of reading your replies to OPs- if you state your thoughts and concerns to the OP in the ways that I suggested in my previous post to you, I will consider and take your input to heart. I will no longer address you or reply to you on any thread in which you are not the original poster. Take good care of yourself, and I wish you well.

anita