* Dear Terri:

“I find myself chasing after my husband”- reads like he is a husband by name only. Practically he is a single man who lives like a teenager, meets with you when he runs out of money and needs someone to pay his bar bill, a man who “does not feel he does any wrong.. He is never wrong”.

The fact that you are 50 does not change the fact that he is behaving like he is 15 (or 21, right at the age where drinking in bars is permitted). I suggest that you take care of your financial affairs and divorce him with minimal financial and other costs to you.

If you would like to communicate further, please start your own thread by going to All Forums at the top of the page, click on a Category (Relationships), and scroll down the page.

anita