Dear KleineBlumeAllaine:

From what you shared, your parents told  you that they did their best, but in actuality they did they worst. They told you that you enjoy holding grudges because they want you to take their neglect and abuse without complaining, and they will stonewall you until you no longer remind to them that they did wrong to you.

“what to do in this situation?”- stop trying to connect to your mother, father, elder sister and anyone who supports them in their stand against you- make a better, more just life for yourself- away from them.

(Easier said than done?)

anita