Dear V:

You are very welcome. Regarding not feeling comfortable with your body, biggest discomfort being your weight- take your time and do what you can to be more and more comfortable with your body. I felt it myself and seen many women and men feeling it- an emotional elation, a very, very good feeling when losing a significant amount of weight. And the good feeling lasts on and on! Yet, I don’t know of anyone who is completely comfortable with his/ her body.. there’s always something that.. isn’t quite right. So, we do what we can and accept the likelihood that our comfort and contentment with our bodies will never be perfect.

“literally every other person is dating or has dated. Makes me feel if I am wrong or committing  a mistake, you know?”- you are not wrong and you are not committing a mistake. You read like a very mature young woman, especially considering you just turned 21.

Also, if you look at the many threads in the relationship forum, you can easily see that that there is a whole lot of wrong and a lot of mistakes taking place within relationships, so focusing on your studies and career at 21 and for the next few years, is wise, and wise.. is right, not wrong.

anita