Dear Dandan:

“From the mental health stand point I am still feeling the same… still fully confused…I wonder was it a mistake that I met her in the first place… I have this feeling is grass is greener the other side on all the aspects of my life. Every single thing… My mind keeps switching so frequently. There is something fundamentally wrong with my thought process… When I talk to her I don’t want her and things feel heavy. When I don’t talk to her I feel I want her and I miss her”, “I think about my life thru my own eyes and not let anything else hinder my thoughts“-

– Currently, your mental health is not well. You are so confused and so distressed that.. you only think of life through your own eyes. You are not considering life through her eyes: will it be good for her to resume any kind of relationship with a man as confused as you are, a man who doesn’t even know if having met her was a mistake?

Is it good for her to be with a man who doesn’t want her when talking to her, a man whose mind keeps switching s frequently?

When as people we are too distressed and confused, we don’t think of the well-being of others, we don’t let .. their well being hinder our thoughts.

Let her go, Dandan. Take on the personal healing path so that you do not hurt those who you hope to love, and so that being mentally healthier, you can live a better life in all aspects of life.

anita