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My friend..
My name is Wind. Sometimes the wind gently, sometimes strong and sometimes break everything up. All ideas and questions are for your quiet contemplation.
I share some ideas with you..
Do you know in the life there are always 2 opposites. You observe for yourself.. Try and find where there is not..
You share before all your troubles everything so perfect . Means..no perfect hides underneath..
Under good hides bad.. Under bad hides good..
Everything that took place with the man is only the appearance of the Law.
Everything that appeared = Of Course my friend.
How it began is only the occasion for everything to appear.
You are lucky. But you did not realize it because of your emotional attachment to the appearance of the situation.
I tell you..
You lay beside this man or another.. Is equal.
Because you are full of emotions with this object or another is equal.
I don’t talk about detail of your situation but everything that began with the man and the other is their cause and effect. On the time everything appears.
Now you begin volunteering to become a slave to your emotions attached to the object outside of you.
Now you suddenly felt worthless because of the dirty situation outside of you..
Where are you my friend?
You volunteer to lost yourself?
Now you begin all sorts of unbalanced behaviour from situation.
My friend.. If something begins means on the time it must end. How it ends is only the appearance. Short or long is only the appearance.
How is to build a life together?
Meaning without the man you did not have your life?
What is the value of your Soul?
What is the purpose of the life?
Your life?
My friend..
Mistake of everyone is from not enough confidence and courage they grasp in imagining of how they want things to be.
But.. Always running like the mouse on the wheel.
From grasping they enter deeper and deeper trouble from can not escape the emotions of attachment. And so.. They receive there effect on the time.
The life always moves and changes my life.
Begin and end is one.
What is the nature of end? Means.. Another begin wait for you.. More possibilities ready to be discovered.. Ready waiting for you.
If you wake up you would be grateful for everything happen because from situation everything appears before you to see clearly the nature of the man.
Remember that everything that takes place outside of you is not you.
All your troubles are caused by your emotions of attachment. When you are feeling angry, upset, sad, hateful..
You are stuck in a self created prison.
My friend only you are destroying you.
To stop. To respect the purpose of your life and Soul takes enormous courage and confidence.
Love that is pure can never become anything else. It has no beginning or ending.
It is free from all attachments and changing emotions.
Really.. That is the love you have my friend?
In the process of chasing imaginary outcomes every one did murder the love for their own lives and Soul.
Ready to fly around the cage of limitation and say they feel so happy.
My friend..
In the life. On the time everything appears.
How it appears is only the occasion when enough details and conditions connected.
I don’t say you must do this or that. Because only you can choose this or that.
When something suddenly appears in the life, the habit is to immediately judge it to be bad.. Hurtful.. Etc..
But how many times did the life help everyone to escape their illusion of a situation.. Opened everything to escape and not waste time?
But they refused to see.
Your life is your life my friend.
Only you can save you or destroy you.
So.. I share.. Story..
A bird is put into a cage.
In the beginning it only tries to escape.
It’s wings are strong and fresh.
Always fighting for the way back to the freedom of the open skies.
But.. Over time….
When the door of the cage is opened..
It refuses to leave.. Tired.. Fear..
The cage has become the permanent house of suffering and habit from the fear of freedom.
Wings lost purpose. Only an old memory of the past.
In your life.. You must always choose..
Your Soul is the bird in cage or the bird that has the courage to keep flying with open wings and discover the vast possibilities of your life.
Always depends upon you my friend.
Must courage.
Wish you good luck.
Thank you so much.
Wind.