Dear Sofioula:

About an hour before you broke up with him, you posted: “I should end it and I think I’m about to do it today. The truth is I don’t know how though… What would you say to such a man?”

In my reply to you, I wrote: “this breakup conversation reads scripted/ made up. It is too long, too thorough, too calm and too..  perfect to be believable, especially being that it supposedly took place (1) only an hour after you were angry and not knowing what to say to him”.

In your reply to me, you wrote: “I have scripted the breakup talk in my head, I was preparing it for days to tell him”- if you prepared the breakup conversation for days, why did you write an hour before the conversation that you didn’t know how to break up with him (“I don’t know how”), and didn’t know what to say to him..

I am sorry that you feel hurt. My intent was to open a new kind of communication with you, one that is perhaps more honest, not to cause you to hurt. I didn’t consider before that you may be making some stuff up  because of your friendly, direct, spontaneous style of writing. Now that I am leaning toward the belief that you have been untruthful, there is no basis for communication between you and I. But there are other members who may disagree with me, and who will be glad to communicate with you. You are welcome to post again on this thread, or, maybe better, start a new thread/s where you will be interacting with other members without my interruption. You are welcome and I wish you well.

anita