Dear Damien:

You are very welcome. It seems to me that what it comes down to is this: she suffers from anxiety (we all do to one extent or another) and depression, and she has had some trouble with some of your behaviors. Question is, at this point/ when you see her in-person next: will she see you as one more Problem in her life, or will she see you as a possible Solution?

A person who is depressed wants a solution. If she sees you as such, she will be motivated to resume a relationship. If she sees you as one more problem in her life (those behaviors she doesn’t like.. I wonder what they are)- she will not be motivated to resume the relationship.

anita