Dear Damien:

“Also she could see no future because we were planning to live together in the same flat in my country but I didn’t have a job… But this was already almost 1 year ago and I made great progress. I visited a therapist, found ways for a job. She acknowledged these changes…. But said after changes was not enough“-

– She was concerned about you not having a job, that is: about you not bringing money into the relationship. When you got a job, she said it “was not enough”- she may have meant, in part, that the money you make in your job is not enough to solve the problems in her life.

Do you think this is what she meant, that she needs a lot more money than what you can bring into the relationship to solve her problems?

anita