Dear Damien:

You had trouble committing to her for 7 years, didn’t lift a finger, as you phrased it. I am worried that you are still having trouble committing to her because you are vague, not clear:

(1) You wrote: “I am ready this time for lifetime fulfilment“- what do you mean specifically by “lifetime fulfilment”?

(2) You wrote: “Yes I am ready. It’s not necessary about marriage“- what is it that you are ready for specifically? And why is it.. not necessarily about marriage, are you not interested in marrying her?

anita