Dear Jisoo:

I read your most recent post. “He did show lot of romantic love and passion in the start“- maybe he has added you to the list of future hookups or whatnot, another female friend with whom to have sex when he is around and in need.

“Gave me lot of mixed signals when I asked if he is interested in a relationship“- not honest.

“Somehow I feel guilty that it’s my constant nagging about his flat mate,  his personal details etc. drove him away from a romantic relationship from me“- from the little information you shared, reads to me that it is the option I started this post with that is more likely than him having been interested in a romantic, monogamous relationship with you from the beginning, and that he acted romantic at first so to draw you into his list, not so to actually have a romantic relationship.

“I have severe anxious attachment style , it became worse. It’s been a year since we met and as a friend , he is always very good in guiding me in financial,  professional and personal matters“- I hope that you got enough guidance on financial and professional matters from him to last you for a while, but better not be guided by him when it comes to your personal matters with him.

anita