Dear Akansha,

I’ve realized in the meanwhile that he probably hasn’t been manipulating/using you for his needs in the last 3 months.  You said you’ve cut contact with him, and he only reached out once for some financial issue recently. That’s when he told you he is very happy with his life. But I guess he didn’t try to get you involved into one of his push-pull behaviors, or talk about sex etc?

If so, please disregard what I said at the end of my last post (that you should put a stop on this behavior of his) – because you already did put a stop on it. But still, I just wanted to say, in case you had any doubt, that I believe his behavior was inexcusable and that he was using you all along. And when he told you that you are like Jesus, that too was manipulative because he wanted to get you to answer his dilemma – whether to have sex with that girl or not. He didn’t care if that question was inappropriate, even though you told him so (I made him understand how hurtful it is for him to ask me for this but his response to that was so will you do that?). He was only interested in himself and what he needed at the moment.

• This reply was modified 3 years, 4 months ago by Tee.