Dear thatssoelsie,

In regards to your questions, no he’s actually none of the above. Its just his job we have an issue with.

That’s important – it means he respects you and doesn’t see you as inferior in any sense.

The only justifiable reason I can think of for his hiding you is that he wants to protect himself from possible mocking and teasing by his co-workers if they would get to meet you.

I know he’s mentioned to me in the past has taken his ex to his job before

Perhaps he took his ex to his work place, and after that was faced with teasing and inappropriate comments. And he regretted it that he revealed his private life, i.e. made himself vulnerable. Perhaps he is afraid of his co-workers’ crudeness and cruelty (which might be the case in that working environment), and he wants to spare himself from that?

You also said:

We don’t have any pictures of each other on social media, were both private people in that aspect.

How come? What’s the motivation for keeping each other a secret on social media?

• This reply was modified 3 years, 4 months ago by Tee.