Dear Houston:

“If I want to reconcile and get back together with her, what should I do?.. Thoughts? Advice?“- I want to re-read your post more attentively later, but from first, fast reading, it seems like she is a very, very nice young woman and you may be nice when you are not angry.. maybe you may have an anger problem. If you agree (?) I suggest that you attend a few psychotherapy sessions to look into the origin of your anger, and ways to manage it in the context of close relationships,  so that it no longer caused damage in your life.

*I will be back in a few hours.

anita